tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post7712957155353877336..comments2019-06-07T12:00:23.797-07:00Comments on Wildflowers~: It's NOT Your FaultEmily Pearsonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05575512268402382364noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-21589869378983382102010-10-23T03:16:10.554-07:002010-10-23T03:16:10.554-07:00Problem: Gay in the story is irrelevant! "Ve...Problem: Gay in the story is irrelevant! "Verily, verily, I say unto you, that whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery; and whoso shall marry her who is divorced committeth adultery."<br /><br />He violated the marriage covenant....was unrepentant...therefore is grounds for a divorce. Simple. Gay or not sexual misconduct is all the same. The players and circumstances will change, but not the principles of fidelity.Mr. Andrewhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03780782205720595856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-70811715382387431892010-10-13T14:31:26.655-07:002010-10-13T14:31:26.655-07:00Last Anonymous--Just my opinion. Sounds like he is...Last Anonymous--Just my opinion. Sounds like he is gay. Hate to say it, but my ex was involved with a married man in his 50s just recently. They have 4 children. I won't go into more detail except that his wife also wasn't interested in sex any longer either. He had never had sex with a male until recently. He plans on staying with her, but continuing to cheat with men.<br /><br />I think some bury it really well because to admit it to themselves is more than they can handle. Many people wanted me to believe my ex isn't gay because he liked sex with me--but he is very gay. I'd call him a 6 on the Kinsey scale. <br /><br />I'm the one who answered earlier that I can't pinpoint anything that will make you know for sure a man is gay. The best way for me to tell is to meet the person--but even that isn't 100%. <br /><br />cl2Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-57114266021206888862010-10-12T17:07:23.162-07:002010-10-12T17:07:23.162-07:00This is a great post and for a minute I thought I ...This is a great post and for a minute I thought I had written the inital letter (altho I have different initials!) So - how do I know if my husband is gay - or whatever? He doesnt know himself for sure (but he DOES feel attraction to men, always has to some degree but never acted on it til this summer, once...but has been online with guys for 4 years...). I don't really think he is totally gay but definitely some flavor of bi, and his kids dont really think he is gay either. Our sex life was great until I hit menopause and told him I wasnt very interested...that when he started his little Man Love Thing. Can't quite decide the Should I Stay or Should I Go question. Not that I have much of a choice, because HE wants to go...because I'm such a bad wife and I don't want sex all the time!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-58758280992041252902010-10-10T12:26:13.869-07:002010-10-10T12:26:13.869-07:00Just a bit of my opinion...and I wish someone woul...Just a bit of my opinion...and I wish someone would have told me this way back in the day when I was struggling being a Straight Wife....To all of you that don't "know" for certain that your husband is gay...please TRUST your instincts and intuition on this. Of all the Straight Wives I have worked with and talked to, NONE of them have ever falsely accused their husbands being gay. Many gay men do not fit the mass mind stereotypes. It is my opinion that your instincts and intuition are your best bet to determine if your husband is gay or not. <br /><br />My ex sorta owned up to being bi-sexual and then recanted his story. So, finally I had to decide if I wanted to live or struggle to survive. I chose to live and have NEVER regretted my decision to move forward with my life. You deserve a beautiful and magnificent life!!!!Mistihttp://www.mistihall.com/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-88877883399944595622010-10-09T18:07:20.407-07:002010-10-09T18:07:20.407-07:00I've been thinking about this on and off for s...I've been thinking about this on and off for several days--Is there a way to know if someone is gay? <br /><br />I was trying to think of characteristics, traits, what society looks at and says, "Gay."<br /><br />Nope--there is not one thing I, myself, can tell you that will help you KNOW for certain if your husband is gay. Gays come in just as many different varieties as straights. My ex about rebuilt the engine in my old car this summer. He can fix ANYTHING. He has no fashion sense and no decorating sense. He doesn't look gay. He doesn't act gay. HE IS VERY GAY.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-66120031932462054832010-10-05T21:27:22.150-07:002010-10-05T21:27:22.150-07:00Is there a way to tell if someone is gay when they...Is there a way to tell if someone is gay when they never would be willing to admit it? Peace of mind is priceless...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-26194730565219150702010-10-04T12:22:08.625-07:002010-10-04T12:22:08.625-07:00If he's treating you like shit....why does his...If he's treating you like shit....why does his sexual preference matter? I know it makes it easier...sorta....but really, does it MATTER in YOUR choices? Here's a big question for you.... if your daughter were in the same EXACT situation, what would you want for HER? <br /><br />YOU ARE HER EXAMPLE OF LOVE, AND OF WHAT IS ACCEPTABLE.<br /><br />No matter what is "normal" at home...your child will gravitate toward that behavior, that treatment, in their own relationships. If it's not good enough for your child....then it's not good enough for YOU. If things are happening in your home that are NOT OK....don't teach your child that it's ok to accept that behavior.<br /><br />If you don't have children....then ask yourself the same thing about your best friend, your mother, whoever. If YOU are in a situation that YOU don't think is acceptable for others...then it's simply not acceptable for you either. <br />Whether he's gay or straight...treating you like shit is NOT ok.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-67335126667509166172010-10-01T21:17:10.457-07:002010-10-01T21:17:10.457-07:00How do I know if he's gay? There are telltale ...How do I know if he's gay? There are telltale signs yet reasonable doubt. He's the sort that would die before coming out. I wish it were enough that he treated me like shit - but I'd also like to know the truth...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9154066149083198636.post-46146921103850465242010-09-28T18:08:20.094-07:002010-09-28T18:08:20.094-07:00Thanks for this post. My heart goes out to the wr...Thanks for this post. My heart goes out to the writer of the post. If I had a magic wand I would sweep it across all Straight Wives, past and present, to let them know that they ROCK...they are BEAUTIFUL....they are LOVABLE...they are a TREASURE....etc. And most importantly...to let them know that it isn't their or anyone else's fault that their (ex) husband is gay. You are such an ambassador of hope for the Straight women! Thanks!!Mistihttp://www.mistihall.com/noreply@blogger.com